Somebody did something to you and you felt bad,hurt,angry,hatred,need for vengence, and blah and blah... Somebody dared to mess up your mind. Stole Your peace. When this happens a flood of advices flow in from whomsoever has heard the story (and there is a flood of emotions in you). (Constructive) Advices such as ,forgive the culprit, accept the person and you know the rest. If advices come along with them reasons follow. "That person did not do it intensionally.", "That person is going through a rough time and is stressed out.", and yeah 'Ignorance' are few of the reasons. But is it necessary to have a reason to forgive or 'accept' someone?? I agree there is no harm in having one. In fact having one helps us in the process as we decide that the 'culprit' is innocenct.
But do we really have to find a reason?? Today I found out the answer as 'NO'.
Without going to next step of finding a reason to excuse someone(may be for your peace of mind).... YES! It is possible to just love the person for who she/he is... because ' She/He IS '... Because that person exists and thats it !
This may be as easy as said,in this case written, but with awareness it is possible. Ofcourse, that person may need to be taught a lesson or two( for his/her learning and growth and whtever..fun.. sake)..but..that comes later on... First step is to just LOVE the person... Unconditionally and dispassionately !
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